Gross, Herbert Paul, Jr. March 31st, 1926 - July 27th, 2016 On the morning of July 27th, 90 years young, still active, and in classic form, our father, husband, grandfather, and father in law departed in peace and in sleep for whereabouts unknown. Herbert Gross was the father of John and James Gross. He is survived by his wife Margaret, James Gross, Jennifer Louise Dehner Gross, Charles Paul Dehner Gross, Sue Kain, and James Hunter Marsh.